This is exactly what I lived for 20 years and it was a complete nightmare . I will never be what I was before him but by the power of God I am healing.
Each and every sentence in this video is 200% true. I have gone through all these mental turmoil again and again during last 23 years. Very lately I realised that he is actually a narcissist.
I’ve never had my life put together in this way. This is 100% accurate of my life as a narcissist wife. 28 years wrapped up tightly with a bow on top! Thank you
This....brought me to tears. Every single thing that was mentioned, i lived for 44 years. I finally got the courage to leave and of course he begged me to stay, he would change etc. I was still going to leave then the lock down happened. And he has changed, incredibly different...sad thing is I cant seem to love him as a wife should. I feel numb. 6 years retired and im working on learning who i am again.
I lived in this emotional abuse for 46 years. It was really sad and unfortunate. He really made me miserable and shook me to my bones. Thank God for some opportunities that showed up, and I keyed into them 🙏. Thank you, Jesus 🙏
I lived this way for 25 years and when he started to become violently physical with me and after all of our children grew up and left our home, I divorced him. I am a better woman because God got me through it! 🙏
Wow! Ready all the comments. We are many. It took God to free me from such abuse. Described my marriage exactly. Like he was there viewing my life in real time. I was crying through this wondering how i made it through. Thank you Jesus.
My God!!! Billy Graham spoke this?!? The first minutes in I wanted to say This Is My Marriage!!! All the way Through! I study narcissistic abuse and am still shocked that he stated my 22 years from beginning on. Sadly, some of what he stated the wife believes also has been reinforced by ministers and counselors. I am truly in awe how the Holy Spirit gave this message. If I were in audience I wouldn’t be able to hide. How would these couples sit still hearing this message? I will need to replay this in my ear until….
This is my story ...he murdered part of me from the inside - out . He murdered my Spirit , and robbed me of the Joy of Living . I'll never be the same . Maybe , with the help from God , and the comfort from my Spiritual Family, I can rise again . Like a Phoenix from the ashes ... ❤
Wow, the accuracy is uncanny. The glimpses of who he used to be once things turn, just keep you struggling and breaking down year after year until you no longer exist. And then you get to climb out, but you get stronger and stronger with each step trusting yourself again.❤
I cried the whole way through this truth! I lived this for 38 traumatic years. I will never be the woman I was before him, I lost her a long time ago!! I am changed forever having been treated this horrific and severally abused. I put my faith in the Lord now. Not in a man!
God bless you 🙏🏾 You are not alone😢 42 years. In my prayer to understand, this video pops up as total confirmation of the truth! Keep praying and trusting God 🙏🏾
It became evident my husband was narcissistic when we had children. When I disagreed with anything regarding them there was a huge problem. I never pushed back before, but with my kids, the protective instinct kicked in and that was the end
This is really amazing, comprehensive, and very specific to d main points. Lovely submission. Thank you. The moment I made d bold step to step out of d manipulations, I gained my freedom. I am not only surviving but also living in peace. The joy of d Lord is my strength.
God delivered me from this. My ex husband nearly destroyed me.. Now I have an amazing godly, loving and extremely patient man that has helped me healed so much. Please don't give up. I still have a long way to go but you can heal and find hope in Christ. There was a time I wanted to take my life, I was a shell of a person but now I'm coming back to life
I'm so happy for you. It's not for me. Married 32 years and my kids are grown. I choose to stay since I have no other families and I have learned to detached myself more. I have more independence. And God's word and prayers and tears is healing for me.
@annelyseclark3312 I understand, but just know there are healthy good men out there. Don't let that evil steal what God could have for you. Keep your heart soft
Once she is pregnant, the abuse really kicks in. It's his belief he has her trapped now. It takes years to be free again. The flying monkey he has make it all the more difficult. They enjoy helping.
Recently he put himself out there to claim I didn't want to be a part of his family or helping him to be what he claimed made himself, him, I recognized his RUclips calling as I was diligent in paying attention to all his needs, and stories. He left me, He never cleaved unto me. Mr. Graham validated everything I lived with for 22.5. He always called me damaged goods. I started to fight back. I tried to get help thinking I had to constantly change and sought advice from even the preacher who performed out marriage ceremony. I stand alone now, I've gotten through my hardship with buring my feelings except for anger and major disdain. I have a lot of healing processes to go through because he wasn't the only one who did all these things and more. I wish he'd heard this for himself as his family was one of the foundational supporters of Mr. Graham.
Endured 32 years of this. Left 8 years ago. Divorced him 7 years ago. Been healing and doing great with the help & Grace of God. The clarity I have now is absolute. God is so good. It was very hard to stay gone. But I did it. Left 6 other times. 7th time was the final time. Started over at 55 years old. I made mistakes after leaving by trying to get revenge but I learned from them and gave it all to God. He gives the Narcissist the Karma. Our job is to heal. Thank you for this video. It is very affirming. 😍🤗🙏
@jeanmarie19 I use to but then did something that stopped them...and that was...I made a list of everything that he said or did that hurt me. And then the bad dreams stopped and my brain replaced them with good dreams. Try it. It worked for me. 😍🤗🙏
I am listening to this with emotions about how these words are telling my life story. After giving the decree of divorce, that he wanted, he is still cruel and nasty. I tried to be my best in anyway I could. Being hit hurts for awhile. The cruel evil words never go away, the pain is always with you. I've learned the hardest way. Don't be me.
Dr. Jeckyll & Mr Hyde… passive aggression over the top, knowledge is key! HG Tudor, knows his kind, better than I had learned about self absorbed, mentally ill people who enter into psychopathy’s realm, as they believe they can one up everything and everyone, with deceit. I do think that they want to take our real empathy, for their own. They are jealous of those who can thrive in the truth, so must punish us.
My daily struggle . I don’t know what’s worse being treated this way or not being able to be the strong women I once was . I have faith in god ! I feel so sad
I was in the same situation. My husband was very narcissistic. Like you I was a very strong woman before marriage. I ended up weak. I questioned why God is making me go through it. When I looked back I saw all the red flags and even ignored it on my wedding day.😢 I married him anyway. Eventually I pushed through and continued running to God for EVERYTHING. Keep going to God. There’s a video I think you’d benefit from. This explains how we feel perfectly. The video I heard before this was explaining the “why” and how God will get the glory. Let me know if you’d like to see it. God bless you.
This is a great video it explains the pain and cruel evil of a narcissistic manipulating husband I escaped many years ago the best decision I ever made im grateful that I took my children away before they were too damaged it has taken the children and myself a long time to recover from the trauma and for them to trust me I’d hope that this disorder will one day be cured my mother was a narcissist and my dad died from a broken heart because of her narcissistic behaviour and as children my brothers and sisters also we all still carry the scars I’m thankful to finally be free and I have a level of happiness that I enjoy I treasure my freedom. And independence
This was how my mother treated me my whole life and my ex-husband. Just look for an opportunity and a window to leave and take it, then never look back! God doesn't want you to stay in abusive relashionships and he says to put no other relashionship above the relationship you have with God. God knows all about the narcissist and he sees you. Don't be afraid of what material things or relashionships you may lose, nothing is worth the cost of losing yourself! Be strong and courageous and put all of your faith in God and he will help you make it through!
This describes very closely what I lived for 35 years. I'm so deeply thankful that God provided a way of escape even when I didn't know how badly I needed to get out. Thank you so much for sharing these truths. Leaving was the most difficult thing I have ever experienced, but life is so much better now.
For 40 years I was married to the man described here, his method of control was to use God's word to demand & explain my submission. He said he was to be first in all things, if not then we have no marriage.
Well, Billy Graham’s message is spot on. All of it. If you resonate with any of it, back away from getting married. Be brave. Run! You’ll be glad later. Narcissistic abuse is craziness and crippling and soul-sucking. You deserve better.
This was my life for 12 miserable years. I'm currently going through divorce to get away from the monster I married. It took me by surprise to hear this coming from Rev. Billy Graham, but I'm grateful that he's saying it, and that I wasn't losing my mind all that time. Thank you to my sister in Christ for sharing this with me!
I was in a marriage like this for 30 years. He controlled everything I did I wasn’t allowed to buy anything without his permission. Gaslighting was one of his best control tack ticks. Every word in this sermon describes him.
Let the Lord provide and protect you. You must leave and give your love to yourself. I wore a necklace till it fell off it read "I love you" ❤️ it also had the tree of life. Fear of being unable to care for yourself or children is not to trust our Creator's love for us. Intimacy is not owed to an unloving partner. I love you ❤️ look in the mirror that has that posted. We need a man who has undying faith in the love of God coming through his blessings to you and yours. Your freedom is a gift from the Lord. Take courage 💪 I got free of 118,000.00 and a drunk creepy abusive marriage since "98" in 2016. He has been calling but I am never gonna give him another chance to devalue me !
Only God can change a narcissist, have a victim of him, he beat me and instead of apologizing he went around telling everyone how am an evil one, i left him, and he immediately got another woman, he left her, got another one failed also, he is now pleading with me to reconcile with him. I pray God saves his soul. Ism done with him
Every narcissist behaves in the same manner and every victim experience the same agony..They will never change. Time to get out. I did. Lonely but peaceful..
I hv narcs in among my relatives and colleagues. My observations: they don’t change for the better. Eventually they grow old miserable, alone, and isolated as the family avoided them.
I’ve been married 22 years and still married to this man. The LORD calls me to stay with him because time is short and we have children that need to be sanctified. The LORD says live as if I have no husband and to deny myself, take up my cross, and follow Him/Jesus, and forgive because He/Jesus wants the narcissist’s heart and repentance too. The LORD is good and always right here with me being my Wonderful Counselor and Immanuel. He, the LORD Jesus Christ, gets the glory and He is who He says He is, amen.
THEY'RE EVIL!!! HE ALSO ABUSES MY PET BEHIND MY BACK! I HAVE ZERO FRIENDS AND FAMILY, A SENIOR AND NOWHERE TO GO!!! NO AGENCY WILL HELP ME, IVE TRIED EVERYTHING FOR YEARS!! ONLY GOD CAN HELP ME!!!
Wow, BG nailed all the descriptions of a narcissistic men and women. There’s a spectrum, some narcs are way too extreme, but most are somewhere in the middle. They are a pain to those close to them due to their controlling nature, pridefulness, selfishness, blaming, gas lighting, putting down others, telling lies, and self grandiose. To preserve yourself, avoid them as much as possible.
Waaoooh, you have said it all. This submission is more than 100% correct. I have listened to it several times. Thank you so much for sharing this. I love and appreciate you dearly. ❤❤❤
I been married since dec 13 2024 n i own my property n he told at a bday party he would kill me n no 1 would find my body he said hecwould burn my place down hire it done for 50$ he's living in my home n i m not ...I need a miracle I don't have money n he does but I own my property n i m raising my 14 b or old granddaughter pray God removes him from our lives n we return home safely
The expert is Narrating in simple terms to layman like me- clear, explicit and so informative- this is the best information shared on Internet- so wish even young girls can get access- just to equip themselves. The subtitles make it accessible even for those with disabilities like hearing/deaf. This applies even to unmarried couples too. So wish he can tell how to dodge these abusers even before a woman can get involved with these ABNORMAL PEOPLE because I know it is possible to ATTRACT THESE KIND OF ABNORMAL PEOPLE ALWAYS- so we don’t give in thinking it’s God whatever…to attract them- ending up thinking it’s YOUR TYPE GOD CHOOSES FOR YOU.
This maybe AI because this does not sound like the message from BG. But the symptoms are that of the narcissistic husbands and the feelings are that of the wives. I walked on eggshell. Getting out with help.
Listening to my life. Depressing. My oldest son is just like his dad. Born that way as far as I can tell. I tried helping him but it doesn't work. He's not a nrac to me as much as to his wife and she is one also. What a mess that is but...they like it. Not me. She was my second round with a narc. I was healing and doing good. They both lived with me for a few years. He was pretty good to live with but she....omg. after they moved out I did that clutter thing around me. I'm working on getting past that right now. Geeze. Eyes and ears open people!
Wow 😳 I'm listening to so much that I go through. I'm on my second marriage and #2 started out very loving and helpful. Now after being married 21 years, I tried to get out on my own, but due to our financial situation, I opted on purchasing an older travel trailer to live in. It needs work and I haven't been able to do it on my own physical abilities yet. He says he will help me but always finds something else to do when the day comes. With some help from a friend, he managed to level it so I could work on it, but...lol... insisted removing the tires even, though I opposed it relentlessly.
This is all so heartbreaking !!! Mine was like that, and now, that he used me up and shriveled me, he dumped me ! Left me with no way to support myself! What do I do??
This is soooo how Carl made me feel but when I realized that it was not true it changed everything in me long story short. I determined to get out of this demonic situation before I ENDED UP BEING HIS VICTIM OF PHYSICAL DEATH . SOME OF OUR FRIENDS AND HIS FAMILY HAVE A HARD TIME BELIEVING THIS ABOUT HIM . I TRULY BELIEVE THIS BECAUSE I MYSELF DIDN'T REALIZED THIS AFTER KNOWING HIM 16 YEARS. (THE FRIST TIME MY SISTER MENT HIM SHE TOLD ME SHE DIDN'T LIKE HIM )
Felt exactly the way u said and walked away 4days ago and it hurts cz I love him truly but I cdnt take everything no more. I feel I can breath better without him and appreciate life and see the beauty around me rather before I was kept in a bubble 🫧 cdnt see anything but him ,hope he realises what he has lost ameen.
This is exactly what I lived for 20 years and it was a complete nightmare . I will never be what I was before him but by the power of God I am healing.
🙏 stay strong and single 💪 ❤😂 and celebrate 🎉
Me too for 30 yrs. Took away my joy!
You'll be better than before
Me too for 24 years and leaving out with nothing but i work hard and I’m much happier
This man just explained my entire life during a hellish five year marriage.
Narcissists rarely apologize for anything.
So true 👍. Mine has never said he was sorry for anything in 40 yrs. There's been plenty for him for him to apologize for !
Not rarely. Never
Always in a way that it's not an apology
15
True statement! This is what I've experienced with my ex husband.
100% accurate lived this for 36 years thank God I am free now in Jesus name! ❤🙏🙌
Each and every sentence in this video is 200% true. I have gone through all these mental turmoil again and again during last 23 years. Very lately I realised that he is actually a narcissist.
Iam also same, I found it after 24 years
This is heartbreaking for me 😢. After 30 years, I'm finally seeing and admitting it. 💔
AMEN. IAM TOO❤
Time to HEAL YOU ✨️ ❤🎉
@deborahleland8079 💋 ❤ grab your freedom...it's that time!!
16 yrs for me. Time to be free in YAHSHUA 🙌🏻📜
Stay strong!! You got this! Amen
I’ve never had my life put together in this way. This is 100% accurate of my life as a narcissist wife. 28 years wrapped up tightly with a bow on top! Thank you
I feel like throwing up when I hear this!! It’s so true I’m having PTSD!! I’m so glad it’s over
This....brought me to tears. Every single thing that was mentioned, i lived for 44 years. I finally got the courage to leave and of course he begged me to stay, he would change etc. I was still going to leave then the lock down happened. And he has changed, incredibly different...sad thing is I cant seem to love him as a wife should. I feel numb. 6 years retired and im working on learning who i am again.
I lived in this emotional abuse for 46 years. It was really sad and unfortunate. He really made me miserable and shook me to my bones.
Thank God for some opportunities that showed up, and I keyed into them 🙏. Thank you, Jesus 🙏
I lived this way for 25 years and when he started to become violently physical with me and after all of our children grew up and left our home, I divorced him. I am a better woman because God got me through it! 🙏
YHWH IS GOOD!
Yes!! Amen
Wow! Ready all the comments. We are many. It took God to free me from such abuse. Described my marriage exactly. Like he was there viewing my life in real time. I was crying through this wondering how i made it through. Thank you Jesus.
Me too😭
My God!!! Billy Graham spoke this?!? The first minutes in I wanted to say This Is My Marriage!!! All the way Through! I study narcissistic abuse and am still shocked that he stated my 22 years from beginning on. Sadly, some of what he stated the wife believes also has been reinforced by ministers and counselors. I am truly in awe how the Holy Spirit gave this message. If I were in audience I wouldn’t be able to hide. How would these couples sit still hearing this message? I will need to replay this in my ear until….
This is my story ...he murdered part of me from the inside - out . He murdered my Spirit , and robbed me of the Joy of Living .
I'll never be the same .
Maybe , with the help from God , and the comfort from my Spiritual Family, I can rise again . Like a
Phoenix from the ashes ... ❤
Me too :( you will! We will ❤ God Bless
It's really sad way to exist... 6 months out and I still feel like he's trying to control me.
Future faking and gaslighting robbed me of all my dreams and expectations.
Wow, the accuracy is uncanny. The glimpses of who he used to be once things turn, just keep you struggling and breaking down year after year until you no longer exist. And then you get to climb out, but you get stronger and stronger with each step trusting yourself again.❤
Totally my life with my husband. He never takes responsibility. Never. I don't want to be married to him anymore.
100 % accurate im in it now it's unreal ....I've been in a 7 year nightmare please please get out if you see any red flags
I understand everything Billy Graham is saying. I'm living this.
He’s not fake ai mimicking his voice
Me too
Lord, please have mercy on us 🙏🏾
😢😢
You are not alone, but I’ve learned the name of the narc’s game, and I’m trusting God, but I have set my boundaries, and he knows I caught on.
I cried the whole way through this truth! I lived this for 38 traumatic years. I will never be the woman I was before him, I lost her a long time ago!! I am changed forever having been treated this horrific and severally abused. I put my faith in the Lord now. Not in a man!
God will restore the years the locust have stolen....just trust him and stay close to him
hmmm! God is with you
God bless you 🙏🏾 You are not alone😢 42 years. In my prayer to understand, this video pops up as total confirmation of the truth! Keep praying and trusting God 🙏🏾
Is he alive?
Praying for all the narcissistic husbands for their transformation.
I'm a Child of God highly favored. I refuse to be cut down by him He will REAP what he ows. I'm getting STRONGER 😊😊😅😅😅😅😅😅
AMEN AND AMEN!!❤
This is spot on. Every word 100 percent true. Run ladies run and don't look back!
If a woman is a Christian, it makes it all the more difficult for her to leave, because she wants to keep her vows to God.
It became evident my husband was narcissistic when we had children. When I disagreed with anything regarding them there was a huge problem. I never pushed back before, but with my kids, the protective instinct kicked in and that was the end
This is really amazing, comprehensive, and very specific to d main points. Lovely submission. Thank you. The moment I made d bold step to step out of d manipulations, I gained my freedom. I am not only surviving but also living in peace. The joy of d Lord is my strength.
This is my life; God just pulled the mask, He is my strength and Refuge. I must walk away for my souls sake.
Mine is dead, thank you Lord.
God delivered me from this. My ex husband nearly destroyed me.. Now I have an amazing godly, loving and extremely patient man that has helped me healed so much.
Please don't give up. I still have a long way to go but you can heal and find hope in Christ.
There was a time I wanted to take my life, I was a shell of a person but now I'm coming back to life
I'm so happy for you. It's not for me. Married 32 years and my kids are grown. I choose to stay since I have no other families and I have learned to detached myself more. I have more independence. And God's word and prayers and tears is healing for me.
@annelyseclark3312 I understand, but just know there are healthy good men out there.
Don't let that evil steal what God could have for you. Keep your heart soft
This video is 100% ACCURATE, and it plays out EXACTLY in the order in which he's narrating it!!!!
This was a bit repetitive
Yes
Regardless, some of us live this cruelty every day. Let us have regard and prayers for others. This is real, someone's life 😢
Exactly God is helping me
They also start fights with everyone you like so you cant have anymore relationships with them.
❤❤My intuitive nature protected me from him. Feeling blessed and greatful. ❤❤
Its amazing how spot on this is. So true😢
Once she is pregnant, the abuse really kicks in. It's his belief he has her trapped now. It takes years to be free again. The flying monkey he has make it all the more difficult. They enjoy helping.
Recently he put himself out there to claim I didn't want to be a part of his family or helping him to be what he claimed made himself, him, I recognized his RUclips calling as I was diligent in paying attention to all his needs, and stories. He left me, He never cleaved unto me. Mr. Graham validated everything I lived with for 22.5. He always called me damaged goods. I started to fight back. I tried to get help thinking I had to constantly change and sought advice from even the preacher who performed out marriage ceremony. I stand alone now, I've gotten through my hardship with buring my feelings except for anger and major disdain. I have a lot of healing processes to go through because he wasn't the only one who did all these things and more. I wish he'd heard this for himself as his family was one of the foundational supporters of Mr. Graham.
I thank God that I went through this because,I will never fall for it again -I'm free in jesus name 🙏
This is me living this nightmare please god hear my prayers 🙏 ❤
Mine tooa. All I want is to be a Christian. And like Joshua said as for me and my house we will serve the Lord
Me too I pray every night for a miracle
@@sharondunphy6737same🙏🏻❤️.
Praying for you!!
@@sharondunphy6737praying for you!! 🙏🏻
Endured 32 years of this. Left 8 years ago. Divorced him 7 years ago. Been healing and doing great with the help & Grace of God. The clarity I have now is absolute. God is so good. It was very hard to stay gone. But I did it. Left 6 other times. 7th time was the final time. Started over at 55 years old. I made mistakes after leaving by trying to get revenge but I learned from them and gave it all to God. He gives the Narcissist the Karma. Our job is to heal. Thank you for this video. It is very affirming. 😍🤗🙏
Im on a similar timeline with you. I still have bad dreams once in a while. Do you?
@jeanmarie19
I use to but then did something that stopped them...and that was...I made a list of everything that he said or did that hurt me. And then the bad dreams stopped and my brain replaced them with good dreams. Try it. It worked for me. 😍🤗🙏
This is my marriage. Depressing and hopeless.
'You just want to fight' I hear it everytime I want to discuss an issue.
God is going to deal with him. Be not deceived. God is not mocked for whatsoever a man soweth that shall he also reap Galatians 6:7
I needed that reminder, thanks!
Amen Praise God!
The?
Best emotional reliable interpretation.I have ever found of a narcissistic husband thank you , billy graham
I'm crying bc I opened myself up to him..so accurate I'm so so sad I believed james
I am listening to this with emotions about how these words are telling my life story.
After giving the decree of divorce, that he wanted, he is still cruel and nasty. I tried to be my best in anyway I could. Being hit hurts for awhile. The cruel evil words never go away, the pain is always with you.
I've learned the hardest way. Don't be me.
My thoughts and prayers are with those who are going through this particular traumatic experience.
I send love to all of you ❤️
Yes! We are healing because of women who have understood and are supporting our growth. Thank you so much 💓
Thanks
I wish i knew this years ago before i met my ex
Every word is spot on as I listened I realised it all thank you 🙏
This video is so true I lived this for (59 years !
God Bless You❤
Did you leave
That says it all. It’s been 30 years of it. I don’t believe in divorce so I take it but my eyes are open now.
Dr. Jeckyll & Mr Hyde… passive aggression over the top, knowledge is key! HG Tudor, knows his kind, better than I had learned about self absorbed, mentally ill people who enter into psychopathy’s realm, as they believe they can one up everything and everyone, with deceit. I do think that they want to take our real empathy, for their own. They are jealous of those who can thrive in the truth, so must punish us.
My daily struggle . I don’t know what’s worse being treated this way or not being able to be the strong women I once was . I have faith in god ! I feel so sad
I was in the same situation. My husband was very narcissistic. Like you I was a very strong woman before marriage. I ended up weak. I questioned why God is making me go through it. When I looked back I saw all the red flags and even ignored it on my wedding day.😢 I married him anyway. Eventually I pushed through and continued running to God for EVERYTHING. Keep going to God. There’s a video I think you’d benefit from. This explains how we feel perfectly. The video I heard before this was explaining the “why” and how God will get the glory. Let me know if you’d like to see it. God bless you.
I would like to hear it
I pray for u I m going thru it only married a few months n it's been torture please pray for me
This is a great video it explains the pain and cruel evil of a narcissistic manipulating husband I escaped many years ago the best decision I ever made im grateful that I took my children away before they were too damaged it has taken the children and myself a long time to recover from the trauma and for them to trust me I’d hope that this disorder will one day be cured my mother was a narcissist and my dad died from a broken heart because of her narcissistic behaviour and as children my brothers and sisters also we all still carry the scars I’m thankful to finally be free and I have a level of happiness that I enjoy I treasure my freedom. And independence
This is SOO "TRUE"!!!!!!!!!!
This was how my mother treated me my whole life and my ex-husband. Just look for an opportunity and a window to leave and take it, then never look back! God doesn't want you to stay in abusive relashionships and he says to put no other relashionship above the relationship you have with God. God knows all about the narcissist and he sees you. Don't be afraid of what material things or relashionships you may lose, nothing is worth the cost of losing yourself! Be strong and courageous and put all of your faith in God and he will help you make it through!
This describes very closely what I lived for 35 years. I'm so deeply thankful that God provided a way of escape even when I didn't know how badly I needed to get out. Thank you so much for sharing these truths. Leaving was the most difficult thing I have ever experienced, but life is so much better now.
For 40 years I was married to the man described here, his method of control was to use God's word to demand & explain my submission. He said he was to be first in all things, if not then we have no marriage.
Pray that I have the discernment to see the truth before we get married.
Well, Billy Graham’s message is spot on. All of it. If you resonate with any of it, back away from getting married. Be brave. Run! You’ll be glad later. Narcissistic abuse is craziness and crippling and soul-sucking. You deserve better.
All I know is if you gave ANY DOUBTS please listen to that voice & gut, put it off if needed
Get out immediately! He will never change!
I lived for 32 years and thought I was losing my mind! I got when he started to become abusive!
Run 🏃 don’t look back. Better to be in peace with the Lord.
You could ruin the rest of your life if you don’t run. Obviously you are questioning something. Please get out put it off before it’s too late
Every. Single. Word. 🙌
This was my life for 12 miserable years. I'm currently going through divorce to get away from the monster I married. It took me by surprise to hear this coming from Rev. Billy Graham, but I'm grateful that he's saying it, and that I wasn't losing my mind all that time. Thank you to my sister in Christ for sharing this with me!
I resonate on this. Its very painful feeling
I was in a marriage like this for 30 years. He controlled everything I did I wasn’t allowed to buy anything without his permission. Gaslighting was one of his best control tack ticks. Every word in this sermon describes him.
Same here
This is my life 😭😭😭😞🥺married but hides everything from me including not providing finances😭😭😭🛡️🙏🙏🙏l feel so sad and devalued,he gaslights me 😢🤔🔦
That is no way to live 😢
Don't give up
RUN AWAY
You are not alone😢
Let the Lord provide and protect you. You must leave and give your love to yourself. I wore a necklace till it fell off it read "I love you" ❤️ it also had the tree of life. Fear of being unable to care for yourself or children is not to trust our Creator's love for us. Intimacy is not owed to an unloving partner. I love you ❤️ look in the mirror that has that posted. We need a man who has undying faith in the love of God coming through his blessings to you and yours. Your freedom is a gift from the Lord. Take courage 💪 I got free of 118,000.00 and a drunk creepy abusive marriage since "98" in 2016. He has been calling but I am never gonna give him another chance to devalue me !
Only God can change a narcissist, have a victim of him, he beat me and instead of apologizing he went around telling everyone how am an evil one, i left him, and he immediately got another woman, he left her, got another one failed also, he is now pleading with me to reconcile with him.
I pray God saves his soul. Ism done with him
Every narcissist behaves in the same manner and every victim experience the same agony..They will never change. Time to get out. I did. Lonely but peaceful..
I hv narcs in among my relatives and colleagues. My observations: they don’t change for the better. Eventually they grow old miserable, alone, and isolated as the family avoided them.
I’ve been married 22 years and still married to this man. The LORD calls me to stay with him because time is short and we have children that need to be sanctified. The LORD says live as if I have no husband and to deny myself, take up my cross, and follow Him/Jesus, and forgive because He/Jesus wants the narcissist’s heart and repentance too. The LORD is good and always right here with me being my Wonderful Counselor and Immanuel. He, the LORD Jesus Christ, gets the glory and He is who He says He is, amen.
Thank you for saying this. I, too, feel this way. Eyes on Jesus!
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This was my life also God is freeing me from this now
I've heard all of these. I'm not in it anymore, thank God.
THEY'RE EVIL!!! HE ALSO ABUSES MY PET BEHIND MY BACK! I HAVE ZERO FRIENDS AND FAMILY, A SENIOR AND NOWHERE TO GO!!! NO AGENCY WILL HELP ME, IVE TRIED EVERYTHING FOR YEARS!! ONLY GOD CAN HELP ME!!!
This my husband over the years but am exiting
God will deliver me
I lived this for 21 yrs. 9 yrs of counseling with no real help. He married the last woman he had an affair with. The pain started all over again.
💔💔 this is exactly what I live in 😢
Wow, BG nailed all the descriptions of a narcissistic men and women. There’s a spectrum, some narcs are way too extreme, but most are somewhere in the middle. They are a pain to those close to them due to their controlling nature, pridefulness, selfishness, blaming, gas lighting, putting down others, telling lies, and self grandiose. To preserve yourself, avoid them as much as possible.
Waaoooh, you have said it all. This submission is more than 100% correct. I have listened to it several times. Thank you so much for sharing this. I love and appreciate you dearly. ❤❤❤
I'm listening as if he already knows my entire life 😢😢
No narcissistic husband please and thank you
This was my life to a T. Married to a minister for 25 years.
Wow! He knew about it! I'm umpressed.
I cannot believe this happens like a play book! It’s tiring, I’m exhausted
Totally right,that's my life
100% accurate
So true! I've lived it.
YES, describing my X to a tee. I Thank God for my years of healing.
This mesage is my life😢😢 my future is in God's hand, every word is exactly my life. Lord save me🙏🙏
Save YOURSELF ❤🎉
If you're in a relationship, and you're seeing ANY of these traits, 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ for your life, and DON'T look back!!!!
The consequences can bring diseases in the body! Some even die from this abuse! So , so sad😢😢😢
Also the profile of a narcissistic wife. And there are a lot of them.
I been married since dec 13 2024 n i own my property n he told at a bday party he would kill me n no 1 would find my body he said hecwould burn my place down hire it done for 50$ he's living in my home n i m not ...I need a miracle I don't have money n he does but I own my property n i m raising my 14 b or old granddaughter pray God removes him from our lives n we return home safely
The expert is Narrating in simple terms to layman like me- clear, explicit and so informative- this is the best information shared on Internet- so wish even young girls can get access- just to equip themselves. The subtitles make it accessible even for those with disabilities like hearing/deaf. This applies even to unmarried couples too. So wish he can tell how to dodge these abusers even before a woman can get involved with these ABNORMAL PEOPLE because I know it is possible to ATTRACT THESE KIND OF ABNORMAL PEOPLE ALWAYS- so we don’t give in thinking it’s God whatever…to attract them- ending up thinking it’s YOUR TYPE GOD CHOOSES FOR YOU.
That’s true, thank you for your teaching ❤🙏❤️
A prayer of blessing
Lol. He convinced me how narcissistic I was until I saw this video. Turn out he is the one 😅
Thank you Lord for saving me 🙏😭
This maybe AI because this does not sound like the message from BG. But the symptoms are that of the narcissistic husbands and the feelings are that of the wives. I walked on eggshell. Getting out with help.
So weird how they do that. All true but it’s not the evangelist Billy Graham.
This is my life right now
Put Jesus first in your life. He is ur husband. Pray and stay in the word as much as u can. God sees ur tears and ur suffering.
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@@annelyseclark3312sometimes we even forgot God 😢😢
Listening to my life. Depressing. My oldest son is just like his dad. Born that way as far as I can tell. I tried helping him but it doesn't work. He's not a nrac to me as much as to his wife and she is one also. What a mess that is but...they like it. Not me. She was my second round with a narc. I was healing and doing good. They both lived with me for a few years. He was pretty good to live with but she....omg. after they moved out I did that clutter thing around me. I'm working on getting past that right now. Geeze. Eyes and ears open people!
Wow 😳
I'm listening to so much that I go through. I'm on my second marriage and #2 started out very loving and helpful. Now after being married 21 years, I tried to get out on my own, but due to our financial situation, I opted on purchasing an older travel trailer to live in. It needs work and I haven't been able to do it on my own physical abilities yet. He says he will help me but always finds something else to do when the day comes. With some help from a friend, he managed to level it so I could work on it, but...lol... insisted removing the tires even, though I opposed it relentlessly.
Stopping you from leaving
This is all so heartbreaking !!!
Mine was like that, and now, that he used me up and shriveled me, he dumped me ! Left me with no way to support myself! What do I do??
Yep my life right now
@wandahodges7311 they are heartless.
This is so true
This is soooo how Carl made me feel but when I realized that it was not true it changed everything in me long story short. I determined to get out of this demonic situation before I ENDED UP BEING HIS VICTIM OF PHYSICAL DEATH . SOME OF OUR FRIENDS AND HIS FAMILY HAVE A HARD TIME BELIEVING THIS ABOUT HIM . I TRULY BELIEVE THIS BECAUSE I MYSELF DIDN'T REALIZED THIS AFTER KNOWING HIM 16 YEARS. (THE FRIST TIME MY SISTER MENT HIM SHE TOLD ME SHE DIDN'T LIKE HIM )
Felt exactly the way u said and walked away 4days ago and it hurts cz I love him truly but I cdnt take everything no more.
I feel I can breath better without him and appreciate life and see the beauty around me rather before I was kept in a bubble 🫧 cdnt see anything but him ,hope he realises what he has lost ameen.